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Is everyone ready for the holiday season? I know I am! Christmas is hands-down my favorite time of the year. So, in today’s By Bonnie blog, I’m spilling all the tea about my ring. That’s right—every question you’ve been asking is about to be answered. How did I design it? Is it natural or lab-grown? What's the story behind it? I know you’re dying to know, but here’s the catch—I’m not revealing the juicy details until the end! So stay tuned, grab a cup of cocoa, and let’s get rolling.

Manifesting 10 Year 10 Carat

First things first—when you want something in life, you manifest it. So, here’s my manifestation moment: my dream 10-year upgrade set is a 10-carat diamond with an East-West emerald cut band. What do you think? Will it happen? 

Honestly, I used to joke about this 10-year upgrade for years, but now it feels like, why not? 

For those of you wondering, what is she talking about, here’s the story: I’ve been married for 10 years, and... I’ve never been properly proposed to. Yep, it was one of those young, “Hey, let’s just get married” moments. We didn’t have the means, we didn’t have the fanfare—none of it.

And after sharing this in a previous blog, so many of my clients reached out, commenting or messaging me like, “Congrats, Bonnie! To be honest, I never had that either.” And it made me realize, this whole over-the-top proposal trend is really such a TikTok-and-Instagram-era thing. Back in the day, it just wasn’t the same.

Funny enough, my job now is all about helping so many people create their perfect engagement moments, and it’s such a joy. But hey, maybe it’s my turn next? What do you think—will I manifest that dream upgrade?

So Many Beautiful Pieces This 2024!

Can we take a moment to reflect on 2024? This year has been so full, and there’s just so much to be grateful for. I’ve done so many amazing anniversary sets—each one so special because my clients pour their hearts out and share their stories with me. Honestly, it’s one of the things I cherish most about what I do.

his year, I created some truly spectacular pieces: ovals with bold, beautiful bands, stunning large round diamonds, earrings, necklaces, bangles—you name it. Each design has its own story, and there’s just so much to share. I mean, is there a better way to celebrate life’s moments than with a little sparkle?

The Most Memorable Piece of 2024

One of the most unforgettable moments this year was designing a gender reveal ring! 

Can you believe it? One of my clients handed me the envelope with their baby’s gender—yes, the actual sealed envelope—and trusted me to create something extraordinary.

The task? Incorporate either a pink or blue gemstone into their ring to reveal the big news. Let me tell you, the emotions, the anticipation—it was everything! I still feel so honored and grateful that my clients trust me with these deeply personal milestones. It’s moments like this that remind me why I do what I do.

The Details of My Engagement Ring

Today, I’m sharing my personal story behind my 10-year upgrade ring! I know so many of you are curious about the details, so let’s dive in. First, let me just take it off—okay, here it is.\

It’s an eternity band because, honestly, all my rings are eternity bands. That’s just my style! This one has six prongs, and I designed it with a double gallery to make the center stone really pop. And yes, we’re also going to get into the whole proposal story—a lot of people have asked, “Bonnie, did you stage your own proposal?” Spoiler alert: Yes and no! But we’ll circle back to that in a minute.

Back to the ring: I wanted something really substantial that felt timeless, and for me, that meant a round center stone. 

I’ve had many shapes over the years, but there’s just something about the symmetry of a round cut that satisfies my slightly perfectionist tendencies.

Now, here’s a little confession—I’ve lost a lot of weight recently, and the ring is a little loose on me. I do regret making it an eternity band all the way around because resizing isn’t an option. 

And yes, I always tell my clients, “Don’t go all the way around if you might need resizing,” but here I am learning my own lesson.

On a personal note, this year has been a bit of a journey for me—working on feeling better, eating better, and finding balance. I work so much (hello, diamond life!), and at some point, I realized I’d kind of lost myself. So, this ring isn’t just a celebration of 10 years—it’s also a reminder to take care of myself.

What do you think? Are you a round-cut fan too?

My Proposal Story

Let’s get into the story of this unforgettable day—the day my 10-year anniversary dream came to life. The truth? It wasn’t always smooth sailing. For years, I’d drop hints (okay, let’s be honest, very direct hints) to my husband about planning something special for our anniversary. Every year, it was the same: “I don’t know what to do,” or, “I froze.” And yes, there were moments when I wondered, Do I not deserve something special? It was tough.

Eventually, I had to take matters into my own hands—subtly, of course! I gave him the contact of someone who could help him pull it all together. And let me tell you, he delivered. When the day finally came, it was perfect. I was blindfolded and the weather was stunning. But what made it truly unforgettable? My son was there, sharing this moment with us.

After 10 years, this experience felt so different. It reminded me of all the work we’ve done as a couple to grow together and create something meaningful. And honestly, it gave me a whole new perspective. For over a decade, I’ve been helping clients design their special pieces for life’s big moments, but now I truly understand what that feels like. The trust my clients place in me—to create the piece that seals the deal with the love of their life—means more than ever.

This was, hands down, the highlight of my 2024. And while we’re celebrating, I also want to thank YOU—our community—for helping us surpass 50,000 subscribers on Youtube! This milestone is so special, and it’s what keeps me motivated to wake up every day and do what I do. From designing jewelry to filming, editing, and sharing stories—it’s a lot of work, but every story you share with me makes it worth it.

More Details On My Engagement Ring

Now, let’s talk about the ring! Why double gallery? Why round? Originally, I debated between solitaire and adding diamonds to the band. My five-year upgrade was a solitaire, so this time, I wanted something with a little more bling. 

The double gallery gives it that extra touch of elegance, while the round center stone just felt right. There’s something so timeless and symmetrical about a round cut—it speaks to my perfectionist heart!

What do you think? Was the extra sparkle worth it? I hope this story inspires you to celebrate your own milestones—big or small.

Is My Engagement Ring Natural or Lab Grown?

And now, the moment you’ve all been waiting for—the finale! So, for those of you wondering about my ring... is it natural or lab-grown? Drumroll, please… It's a natural diamond! Yes, I shared the news on Instagram, but let me tell you—what you choose to wear is entirely your business. Whether it’s natural or lab-grown, the most important thing is that you love it.

I genuinely adore how far technology has come, offering us options that weren’t available even a decade ago. 

Just think about all the incredible jewelry we’ve created this year! The number of couples we’ve brought joy to thanks to lab-grown diamonds is nothing short of inspiring.

What I cannot stand, however, is negativity toward one choice or the other. Diamonds—natural or lab-grown—are a personal preference. Both are beautiful, both are meaningful, and both have a place in this world. The real value comes from the happiness they bring to the wearer.

So, as we wrap up this year and dive into the holiday season, I hope you’re embracing all the joy, sparkle, and love around you. Thank you for joining me on this journey, and I hope this blog gave you all the satisfying details you were looking for.

Happy holidays!

I’m absolutely buzzing with excitement to start the new year with so many incredible projects on the horizon! From dazzling new designs to unforgettable moments, I can’t wait to share it all with you. 

Wishing you the merriest Christmas and the happiest holiday season, my loves. Enjoy every sparkle, every moment, and every bit of magic. See you in my next blog—bye for now!